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Not liked or Hated Questions

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.


The most unwanted questions are about very personal questions,
such as age, partnership, when to have children,
but also politics, which party one is for or who to vote for.
Further considered inappropriate is the question about how much one earns
and sometimes anyway if one wants to know more about what someone does for a living.


When people are among themselves, at receptions or at work, in cafés or restaurants, there is an unspoken rule that certain subjects should not, or cannot, be discussed and that certain questions would certainly not be asked. It comes down to ensuring that no wrong ball is thrown or no one would be put in a difficult position, and certainly that no heated discussions would disturb the peace of the company.

Today, lots of youngsters seem to forget that there should be the decency to respect the unspoken rules in society.

There are certain topics that a conscious or right-thinking person knows it is best not to bring up in the circle of friends or during a group discussion or at the table.

For example, a lot of people avoid discussing politics and religion at the table or during meetings. These are the most common topics that most people want to avoid. Above all, they themselves do not want to be asked which political party they like or which church they belong to and what they believe. For many it is also very difficult to recognise propaganda, wishful thinking, political against social talk, fake news against real facts.

Strangely enough, we have come to a time where the word “woke” is worn high in the flags, and everybody seems to have his or her idea of words that may not be used. We are being whipped around our ears with the term “woke”. Every night on television, there are rounds of conversations talking about this and that, that may or may not be, may or may not be woke.
In terms of language, this craze of “woke” concerns its totally frenzied absurdities, where people should realise that they are creating a world of censor.

At its core, being “woke” is about being aware and understanding of the various forms of oppression, injustice, and privilege that exist in our society. It is about acknowledging that our society and its systems are deeply flawed and that these issues need to be addressed. Being “woke” means having a strong sense of social consciousness and being actively involved in the fight for justice and equality.

Being “woke” means being willing to challenge the status quo, speak out against injustice, and stand up for those who are marginalized and oppressed. It means being an active advocate for justice and equality, and understanding the interconnectedness of our society and the way that privilege and oppression intersect. {True meaning of being “Woke!”}

But the steps to oppose the incorrect threaten to go incorrectly far, wrongly attributing false charges to words and writing them off as inadmissible. The latest deletions of certain words in Roald Dahl’s books is a splendid example. Discussions around it ran high and even raised the question of whether it could be even allowed to be talked about.
Very many books we grew up with, have today ended up blacklisted because of their multitude of disallowed terms and words. In some countries, certain children’s and picture books are now not even lendable to minus 16-year-olds.

With the whole woke business also came the matter of “race” and colour of skin, as well as the objection to talk about refugees and asylum seekers, as if by not talking about them they would not exist, or we would not have to find solutions for them.

Avoiding certain questions around serious issues shows, in my opinion, a certain cowardice or deliberate indifference.

But those who want to ask questions to somebody should also realise and accept if the other person makes it known that he or she prefers not to answer that question, and not pursue it further. The questioner is then expected to behave ethically and respectfully towards the questioned person.

It might be very good not being offensive to a person of another race, but not daring to question him or her about certain elements of their culture shall not help to come to an understanding of that culture and willingness to be interested in it out of full conviction and respect for that person and for the perhaps foreign or different culture.

The whole woke affair and inability to raise certain issues today does no good to the further development of our society nor to getting to know and appreciate other people and cultures. Instead of uniting is the woke rage more diving people.

Today lots of people are fed up by hearing talks about nature, globalisation, culture wars and other wars and as such do not want to hear questions about ecological, economical or political matters. At the same time not so many are interested in politics, and if the politicians are not careful, soon the majority of the population shall not wanting to hear or do any with politics. Now there are already lots of people who do not want to hear the question to go to the voting ballot. But, when no turning around, soon, the majority shall not want to hear that question to bring out a vote.

I hate to see the end of democracy and would not like to hear that question if we reached such point of failed democratic systems.


Please come also to read



  1. Absurdity of present “woke” rage: The rewriting of Dahl
  2. Why censoring Roald Dahl is a dangerous step
  3. What about irreverence and sharp-edged spirit of the original text
  4. The Telegraph for Monday 21 November 2022
  5. The Telegraph Frontpage 2023 February 20
  6. The Telegraph Frontpage 2023 February 21
  7. The Telegraph Frontpage Wednesday 2023 February 22
  8. The Telegraph for the sabbath of 2023 February 24-25
  9. New term names at London School of Economics
  10. Unique💗


Additional reading

  1. An A-Z for a world which has to change.
  2. Truth is not a Philosophical discussion
  3. Thoughts tinged with triviality
  4. What would you do if…? Continued trial
  5. Coming to the end of 2018
  6. More care needed for older getting population
  7. White versus black in a woke world
  8. How far does this “Woke” world wants to go
  9. Holiday time reading time
  10. Landslides to be expected in political circus
  11. Migration, a story of two worlds and a play toy of the media
  12. When Tragedy Strikes…
  13. One-Liner Wednesday — On Bad Terms
  14. Some one or something to fear #2 Attitude and Reactions



  1. Daily Question
  2. The Dreaded Question
  3. The Intended Question I Hate
  4. How are you?
  5. How are you? – what they would like to hear The truth or the myth
  6. Unwritten Rules
  7. That which should remain unspoken…
  8. Take Notice: Unspoken Rules
  9. unspoken rule of the game
  10. Hey, Boomers: Shut Up!
  11. Alignment – The Unwritten Rule and How It Affects All Areas of Your Life
  12. Unwritten Black People Rules & the Black Kids Rules For Survival
  13. The Unspoken Rules Of The ‘Kalocal’
  14. Awkward Family Gatherings
  15. The Pain of a Pleasantry
  16. Some Conversations Just NEED To Happen
  17. Eighth prompt?
  18. The question i dread being asked 😩
  19. One question you hate to ask For me it will be asking someone their age.
  20. For me it will be asking someone their age.
  21. So … You are How old? and other things you shouldn’t say
  22. The question What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain. I hate being asked “Did I tell you to do this”
  23. Thursday Prompt March 9/23 – asked if I have a boyfriend
  24. one question you hate to be asked? When are you going to have another child??.
  25. “When are you getting married/having children?
  26. Why did you get divorced?
  27. What is your choice 🤔 – What are you doing.
  28. One question? I’m a writer & have been one for over 2 decades, when people ask me what I do I almost feel like I get laughed at.
  29. hating It really gets under my skin when somebody questions the way I enjoy my life and then they describe their own ways of enjoying the life. 
  30. Hated discussions about the new job
  31. What do you do? (Asking about work is the #1 question in America & I hate it.
  32. Where do you work?
  33. Why did you leave a full-time job with the university and hospital to establish a private practice dedicated to hepatology.
  34. This again?
  35. Do you have to go for a ride today?
  36. Can you guarantee results?
  37. Why are you broke
  38. Discussing Politics – never debate with someone who will never admit they are wrong when presented with overwhelming facts
  39. Discussing Politics
  40. How to Avoid Politics at the Dinner Table
  41. Talking Politics Isn’t a “Bad” Thing
  42. from the Book of Nash: Second Verse of the Eleventh Chapter – Politics and Religion
  43. questions that are too vague or broad may be challenging to address because they lack specificity or a clear focus.
  44. Are you sure?
  45. Money
  46. You Cannot Be Serious!
  47. Things That Should Never Be Taken Seriously
  48. Wokeness and autism…
  49. Life of Learning
  50. What do I do now?
  51. And another thing…
  52. It’s Time To Reveal
  53. This Charming Man
  54. I and We or no you.
  55. Bruce Pardy: Ontario lawyers must vote against the woke onslaught
  56. Iowa bill pushes to halt ‘woke agenda’ in state universities, eliminate DEI spending, lawmaker says
  57. Once Upon a Time at the End of the World #4 Micro-Review – The Wild and the Woke
  58. Most in new poll view ‘woke’ as positive term
  59. Why Woke? When Will it Wander Away?
  60. True meaning of being “Woke!”
  61. What Does it Mean to be ‘Woke’?
  62. The Founders Were Woke
  63. Elise Stefanik Slams DOD for Proliferation of ‘Woke’ K-12 Curriculum and ‘Blocking’ Survey
  64. Snow White and Cinderella under attack from Ladybird books’ woke sensitivity readers
  65. “Sensitivity authors” and their total lack of sensitivity
  66. The Last of Us – “Woke” Plots
  67. The Army, Recruiting, and Bad Faith “Woke” Criticism
  68. Have You Had Enough of Woke Companies? New Survey Shines A Light on How Americans Feel – DC Enquirer
  69. On “Woke” and Viva Max!
  70. JJ Reddick slams woke and divisive racial narratives on ESPN
  71. Inaction Speaks Louder Than Words
  72. Woke culture threatens academic freedom in social sciences at the University of Amsterdam
  73. The Woke and Their Golden Paint
  74. The Absurdity of the Wokeness Wars
  75. Many Thanks

Published by Marcus Ampe

Retired dancer, choreographer, choreologist Founder of the Dance impresario office and archive: Danscontact-Dansarchief plus the Association for Bible scholars, the Lifestyle magazines "Stepping Toes" and "From Guestwriters" and creator of the site "Messiah for all". - Gepensioneerd danser, choreograaf, choreoloog. Stichter van Danscontact-Dansarchief plus van de Vereniging voor Bijbelvorsers, de Lifestyle magazines "Stepping Toes" en "From Guestwriters" en maker van de site "Messiah for all".

6 thoughts on “Not liked or Hated Questions

  1. Very well-thought out post. Yes, I often hear this definition when I inform people I am not “Woke”, the problem is that the self-describing “Woke” people do not even adhere to this definition!

    As you state, we cannot avoid the difficult questions, but simultaneously, we cannot assume that we know the culture of another. My culture is far more similar to a refugee from Ethiopia than the typical white American, and yet I am both white and American.

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